{"product_id":"a-place-to-stand-when-you-love-an-alcoholic-9798247066019","title":"A Place to Stand: When You Love an Alcoholic","description":"\u003cp\u003e • Author(s): Billy Landis\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher Imprint: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • BISAC: Adult Children of Alcoholics\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eA Place to Stand\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eLiving with alcoholism-whether loud and chaotic or quiet and contained-has a way of pulling life off center. You wait. You adapt. You explain. You endure. Over time, it becomes difficult to tell where the alcoholic's instability ends and where your own life begins.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eA Place to Stand\u003c\/i\u003e is written for those who love someone with a drinking problem and are tired of living in reaction to it. It is not a book about fixing, convincing, or rescuing. It does not offer strategies for managing someone else's choices. Instead, it offers something quieter and more durable: a way to live with clarity, dignity, and steadiness regardless of whether anything changes.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWritten by a recovering alcoholic for Al-Anon readers, this book explores the internal cost of constant vigilance-how attention becomes organized around another person's drinking, how responsibility quietly expands, and how identity can form around endurance. With honesty and compassion, it names the realities often left unspoken: lying, broken trust, emotional confusion, grief, estrangement, and the painful truth that sobriety does not always repair relationships.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eDrawing seamlessly from Christian faith, mindful presence, and Al-Anon wisdom, \u003ci\u003eA Place to Stand\u003c\/i\u003e does not present these perspectives as separate systems, but as a single lived posture. Faith here is not about certainty, but about being held without explanation. Mindfulness is not about detachment from life, but presence without control. Al-Anon principles are not treated as slogans, but as a way of restoring right-sized responsibility and self-respect.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book does not promise relief, resolution, or reconciliation. It offers something more honest: permission to stop waiting for your life to begin. It invites you to notice where your life has been organized around reacting, absorbing, or hoping for conditions to change-and to consider what becomes possible when you no longer need guarantees in order to live well.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eA Place to Stand\u003c\/i\u003e is for anyone who wants to remain open without being consumed, loving without self-erasure, and faithful without bargaining. It is not an answer book. It is a grounding one.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Independently Published","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":47569886183575,"sku":"9798247066019","price":1288.0,"currency_code":"INR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0666\/3471\/1191\/files\/9798247066019.webp?v=1774879514","url":"https:\/\/atlanticbooks.com\/products\/a-place-to-stand-when-you-love-an-alcoholic-9798247066019","provider":"Atlantic Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}