{"product_id":"done-being-last-stop-shrinking-start-choosing-yourself-without-the-guilt-9798253962190","title":"Done Being Last: Stop Shrinking, Start Choosing Yourself Without the Guilt","description":"\u003cp\u003e • Author(s): Ruthanne McKee\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher Imprint: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • BISAC: Personal Growth - Happiness\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eWhen did you last do something just because you wanted to?\u003c\/b\u003eNot because someone needed you to. Not because it was the responsible thing. Just because it made you happy.If that answer didn't come easy - this book is for you.Ruthanne Mckee spent two decades being everything to everybody. Good wife. Good mother. Good daughter. Good employee. She gave and gave and called it love - until the day she realized she wasn't being generous. She was being afraid.\u003cb\u003eDone Being Last\u003c\/b\u003e is the book she needed and couldn't find. It's a warm, honest, no-nonsense guide for women who are exhausted from putting everyone else first - and ready to find out what happens when they stop.Inside, you'll discover: - Why the guilt you feel for taking care of yourself isn't your conscience - it's conditioning- How to say no - cleanly, kindly, and without a ten-minute apology afterward- The real meaning of \"selfish\" - and why it probably doesn't mean what you think it means- How to identify the relationships that drain you - and what to actually do about them- Why choosing yourself makes you a better mother, partner, and friend - not a worse one- Practical, unglamorous steps to build a life that actually has you in itThis isn't a book about bubble baths and vision boards. It's about the hard, necessary work of deciding - maybe for the first time in a long time - that you matter too.Written in a warm, plain-spoken Southern voice that feels like your wisest friend telling you the truth over coffee, \u003cb\u003eDone Being Last\u003c\/b\u003e is the permission slip you've been waiting for - and the road map to get there.If you've ever felt invisible in your own life - this book was written for you.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Independently Published","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":47775422611607,"sku":"9798253962190","price":1205.0,"currency_code":"INR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0666\/3471\/1191\/files\/9798253962190.webp?v=1777990249","url":"https:\/\/atlanticbooks.com\/products\/done-being-last-stop-shrinking-start-choosing-yourself-without-the-guilt-9798253962190","provider":"Atlantic Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}