{"product_id":"how-to-stop-attracting-the-wrong-people-88-little-patterns-worth-breaking-before-your-next-relationship-9798252043272","title":"How to Stop Attracting the Wrong People: 88 Little Patterns Worth Breaking Before Your Next Relationship","description":"\u003cp\u003e • Author(s): Celdron Alexander\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher Imprint: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • BISAC: Interpersonal Relations\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eDifferent faces, different names - but somehow the same emotional distance, the same slow unraveling, the same moment where you think: \u003ci\u003ehow did I end up here again?\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe answer isn't that you're broken. It isn't that you're too much, or not enough, or simply unlucky in love. The answer is a pattern - and patterns, unlike luck, can be changed.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eHow to Stop Attracting the Wrong People\u003c\/b\u003e is the warm, direct, and surprisingly entertaining guide to understanding exactly what you've been doing - and why it keeps producing the same result. Relationship counselor and behavioral pattern coach \u003cb\u003eCeldron Alexander\u003c\/b\u003e draws on fifteen years of working with individuals and couples to map the 88 most common patterns that keep smart, self-aware people stuck in the wrong relationships.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis is not a heavy psychology textbook. It is a conversation with the most honest friend you've ever had - one who happens to know a great deal about why human beings do what they do when they're trying to love each other.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eInside, you'll discover: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhy you keep finding the same emotionally unavailable person in a different body - and the specific signal you're sending that calls them in\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThe exact moment in early dating where the pattern gets set, and how to catch it before it catches you\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhat \u003ci\u003e\"I just want to help them\"\u003c\/i\u003e is actually protecting you from - and why the person who needs fixing never quite gets fixed\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow to tell whether you're staying in a relationship out of love, or out of the fear of being alone\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eEvery one of the 88 patterns ends with a \u003cb\u003eBreak It\u003c\/b\u003e - a single, specific action that interrupts the pattern at its most accessible point. Not vague advice. Not a journaling prompt that goes nowhere. A small, usable move you can make before you finish the chapter.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou don't need to have had a terrible childhood to recognize yourself in these pages. You just need to have been human in a relationship, which is to say: you'll recognize yourself on almost every page.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eThe truth about your patterns is not as hard to hear as you feared.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eIt is harder to keep avoiding.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Independently Published","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":47776106774679,"sku":"9798252043272","price":862.0,"currency_code":"INR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0666\/3471\/1191\/files\/9798252043272.webp?v=1777994313","url":"https:\/\/atlanticbooks.com\/products\/how-to-stop-attracting-the-wrong-people-88-little-patterns-worth-breaking-before-your-next-relationship-9798252043272","provider":"Atlantic Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}