{"product_id":"if-they-wanted-to-they-would-stop-making-excuses-for-people-who-dont-choose-you-9798258929792","title":"If They Wanted To, They Would: Stop Making Excuses for People Who Don't Choose You","description":"\u003cp\u003e • Author(s): Adrian Voss\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher Imprint: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • BISAC: Interpersonal Relations\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou already know the answer. You have known it for a while.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou keep checking your phone. You keep replaying the last conversation. You keep building a case for why they are probably just busy, probably just going through something, probably just scared. And somewhere underneath all of that, you know the truth you are not ready to say out loud.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eIf they wanted to, they would.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book is not a gentle nudge. It is the honest conversation your best friend has been too afraid to have with you. It walks you through every excuse you have ever made for someone who was not making time for you, every story you told yourself about their potential, every breadcrumb you called a meal, and every moment your gut was telling you what your heart refused to accept.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAcross twelve no-nonsense chapters, you will learn why \"too busy\" is the oldest lie in the book, how we get addicted to possibility instead of reality, why potential is a trap that keeps you stuck, and what it actually costs you to always be the bigger person. You will understand why your intuition has been right all along, and why you have been working so hard to silence it.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis is not a book about being bitter. It is not a book about giving up on love. It is a book about finally understanding what real effort looks like, so you stop accepting something that only looks like it from a distance.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe people who are meant to be in your life do not make you feel like a burden. They do not leave you guessing. They show up. They call back. They choose you, on an ordinary Tuesday, without needing a reason.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eYou deserve that. Not eventually. Now.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIf you are tired of shrinking yourself to fit into someone else's inconsistency, this book was written for you.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Independently Published","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":47883332878487,"sku":"9798258929792","price":858.0,"currency_code":"INR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0666\/3471\/1191\/files\/9798258929792.webp?v=1781101210","url":"https:\/\/atlanticbooks.com\/products\/if-they-wanted-to-they-would-stop-making-excuses-for-people-who-dont-choose-you-9798258929792","provider":"Atlantic Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}