{"product_id":"late-to-my-own-party-9798233231186","title":"Late To My Own Party","description":"\u003cp\u003e • Author(s): Jai Montag\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher: Jai Montag\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher Imprint: Jai Montag\u003cbr\u003e • BISAC: Life Stages - Later Years\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eLate to My Own Party\u003c\/em\u003e is a reflective essay collection about arriving-emotionally, relationally, and honestly-later than expected.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eMoving through the AIDS-era shadows of the 1980s and 90s, a marriage that made sense on paper, and the quiet skills of passing for stable, these essays trace how a life can be carefully built while something essential remains deferred. When the author finally comes out in midlife, he finds himself entering queer spaces already fluent with rules he never learned, expected to want what others want, and navigating intimacy without the shared history so many take for granted.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat follows is not a coming-out triumph or a story of late-found certainty, but an unsentimental examination of wanting: the difference between being wanted and being chosen, access and intimacy, waiting and staying. With precision and restraint, \u003cem\u003e Late to My Own Party\u003c\/em\u003e explores what it means to remain open without guarantees-and how to live honestly inside a life that is still unfolding.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis is a book about lateness without shame, longing without performance, and the courage of staying present when the music is still playing, even if you're not sure when-or whether-you'll dance.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Jai Montag","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":47778915811479,"sku":"9798233231186","price":1389.0,"currency_code":"INR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0666\/3471\/1191\/files\/9798233231186.webp?v=1778032060","url":"https:\/\/atlanticbooks.com\/products\/late-to-my-own-party-9798233231186","provider":"Atlantic Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}