{"product_id":"living-with-antonio-how-to-understand-your-autistic-sibling-9798295414329","title":"Living with Antonio - how to understand your autistic sibling","description":"\u003cp\u003e • Author(s): Benjamin Dominguez-Volpe\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher: Irma Dominguez\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher Imprint: Irma Dominguez\u003cbr\u003e • BISAC: General\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eLiving with Antonio\u003c\/strong\u003e is a moving, deeply human account of what it truly means to grow up beside someone whose world operates on a different wavelength. Written by 14-year-old Benjamin Dominguez-Volpe, the book stands out not only as a sibling memoir but as a rare and compassionate bridge between scientific understanding and lived emotional truth. Benjamin invites readers into the intimate, sometimes chaotic, often beautiful reality of life with his brother Antonio, who is on the autism spectrum-a reality that many families experience but few describe with such clarity, warmth, and youthful insight.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat begins as a portrait of two brothers-one navigating adolescence and the other navigating a world filled with sensory intensity, routines, and unspoken rules-quickly deepens into a broader reflection on what it means to care for, learn from, and grow with someone whose needs and perceptions differ from one's own. Benjamin writes not as a clinician or an adult observer, but as someone on the front lines of siblinghood: sharing rooms, sharing routines, sharing frustrations, and sharing victories that often go unnoticed by the outside world. His perspective is fresh, unfiltered, and surprisingly wise.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThroughout the book, Benjamin blends personal anecdotes with accessible explanations of autism, drawing from the scientific knowledge he has gradually absorbed through family conversations, doctor visits, and his own curiosity. This combination allows readers to understand not just \u003cstrong\u003ewhat\u003c\/strong\u003e autism is but \u003cstrong\u003ehow\u003c\/strong\u003e it feels-both for the person experiencing it and for the families doing their best to support them. He translates clinical concepts into moments: a meltdown at a restaurant becomes an illustration of sensory overload; a quiet, fleeting moment of connection becomes an explanation of how communication can take forms far beyond words.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe emotional core of the book revolves around Benjamin's evolving relationship with Antonio. At times, living with his brother demands patience that seems impossible for someone his age. There are moments of embarrassment, anger, or exhaustion-feelings many siblings of neurodivergent children know all too well but may struggle to voice. Benjamin does not shy away from these truths. Instead, he approaches them with honesty and vulnerability, describing the guilt that sometimes follows frustration, the isolation that can come when others do not understand, and the fierce protectiveness that rises in him when Antonio's differences are met with ignorance or cruelty.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYet \u003cem\u003eLiving with Antonio\u003c\/em\u003e is not a book about hardship. It is, above all, a book about \u003cstrong\u003elove\u003c\/strong\u003e-one that grows stronger because of the challenges, not in spite of them. Benjamin reveals the extraordinary ways Antonio communicates affection, humor, and trust, even when words fail him. He writes about the delight of decoding Antonio's unique language of gestures and expressions, the shared routines that become sacred rituals, and the sense of wonder that comes from seeing the world through his brother's eyes. In Antonio's patterns, Benjamin finds lessons about consistency; in his sensitivities, lessons about empathy; in his resilience, lessons about strength.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Irma Dominguez","offers":[{"title":"Hardcover","offer_id":47576858165399,"sku":"9798295414329","price":2796.0,"currency_code":"INR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0666\/3471\/1191\/files\/9798295414329.webp?v=1774901915","url":"https:\/\/atlanticbooks.com\/products\/living-with-antonio-how-to-understand-your-autistic-sibling-9798295414329","provider":"Atlantic Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}