{"product_id":"parenting-the-system-why-your-teenager-struggles-at-school-what-teachers-are-really-seeing-and-what-every-parent-can-do-to-help-9798198621688","title":"Parenting the System: Why Your Teenager Struggles at School, What Teachers Are Really Seeing, and What Every Parent Can Do to Help","description":"\u003cp\u003e • Author(s): Bart Reevers\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher Imprint: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • BISAC: Life Stages - Teenagers\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eDoes your teenager behave completely differently at school than they do at home?\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eDo you get phone calls from school about a child you barely recognise in the report? Do you find yourself caught between defending your child and backing the school - unsure which version of events to believe?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou are not alone. And this is not a discipline problem you've missed.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eParenting the System\u003c\/i\u003e is the practical guide for parents of secondary and high school students who are struggling with behaviour at school. Written by an educator with years of front-line classroom experience, it explains - in clear, direct language - how school behaviour systems actually work, why teenagers behave so differently across environments, and exactly what parents can do to close the gap between home and school.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eThis book will help you: \u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eUnderstand why your teenager's school behaviour and home behaviour look nothing alike - and what's actually driving the difference\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eRead the pattern underneath the behaviour before it becomes a crisis\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eRecognise when defiance, laziness, or attitude is hiding academic shame, anxiety, unmet learning needs, or peer pressure\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eBuild consistency at home that supports what school is trying to do, without turning home into a second classroom\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHave productive conversations with your teenager about school - even when they shut down, deflect, or turn everything into an argument\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eTalk to school as a partner, not an adversary - with the right questions, the right language, and the confidence to push back when necessary\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eKnow exactly what to do when things escalate: from detentions and isolation through to suspension, reintegration meetings, and exclusion risk\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eWhether your child is just starting to push back or things have already become serious, this book gives you a map.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eNot a map for winning against the school. Not a script for excusing behaviour. A map for understanding the full picture - and responding to it before the pattern becomes a permanent story your child carries about who they are.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eParenting the System\u003c\/i\u003e is not about choosing sides. It is about understanding why your teenager does what they do in school, what both sides are missing, and how to build the consistency and communication that can actually make a difference.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eThe incident is the smoke. The pattern is the fire. This book teaches you to read the fire.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Independently Published","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":47969052688535,"sku":"9798198621688","price":1521.0,"currency_code":"INR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0666\/3471\/1191\/files\/9798198621688.webp?v=1782920280","url":"https:\/\/atlanticbooks.com\/products\/parenting-the-system-why-your-teenager-struggles-at-school-what-teachers-are-really-seeing-and-what-every-parent-can-do-to-help-9798198621688","provider":"Atlantic Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}