{"product_id":"she-doesnt-hate-you-you-just-dont-matter-the-new-fathers-guide-to-surviving-the-first-six-months-after-childbirth-9781069647009","title":"She Doesn't Hate You, You Just Don't Matter: The New Father's Guide To Surviving The First Six Months After Childbirth","description":"\u003cp\u003e • Author(s): Ken Laroza\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher: Ash + Harbour Press\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher Imprint: Ash + Harbour Press\u003cbr\u003e • BISAC: Parenting - Fatherhood\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eShe Doesn't Hate You, You Just Don't Matter: The New Father's Guide to Surviving the First Six Months After Childbirth\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eNo one tells you what's \u003cem\u003ereally\u003c\/em\u003e about to happen when your baby arrives. Not the books. Not the blogs. Not the dudes at work who give you a pat on the back and say, \"Good luck, man.\"\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book does.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWritten by a real dad who stumbled, struggled, and survived those chaotic, emotional, and exhausting first six months, \u003cem\u003eShe Doesn't Hate You, You Just Don't Matter\u003c\/em\u003e is a raw, relatable guide for new fathers navigating the hardest transition of their lives-becoming a parent.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis isn't your average \"new dad\" handbook. There are no diagrams for swaddling. No checklists for diaper bags. No generic advice from someone who hasn't actually done the thing. This is real talk.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFrom the emotional toll to the invisible fights, the mental fog to the relationship strain, this book lays it all out-from a dad who lived it.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou'll find chapters that cover: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThe myth of the \"natural father\" and why it's okay if you don't feel instantly connected\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhy your partner seems distant and irritable (and why it's \u003cem\u003enot\u003c\/em\u003e about you... mostly)\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhat keeping score does to your marriage-and how to stop doing it\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThe surprising reasons men cheat after having a baby (and how to protect yourself from becoming that guy)\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow to handle fights, feel like less of a failure, and communicate without making things worse\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSimple, practical habits that strengthen your relationship in the middle of the chaos\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThe truth about bonding, burnout, isolation, and learning to forgive yourself\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book is for dads who: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eFeel like they're doing everything wrong\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAren't sure how to support their partner without losing themselves\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eMiss their old life but feel guilty for even thinking that\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAre tired, confused, and just want to know they're not alone\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou don't have to be perfect. You just have to show up.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWith a mix of real stories, reflection questions, and practical tips, this guide gives you the clarity and confidence you need to keep showing up as a partner and father-even when it's hard, messy, or feels completely overwhelming.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFatherhood isn't something you master. It's something you grow into-\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eone day, \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eone mistake, \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eand one breakthrough at a time.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhether you're weeks away from becoming a dad or knee-deep in sleep deprivation and self-doubt, \u003cem\u003eShe Doesn't Hate You, You Just Don't Matter\u003c\/em\u003e will help you understand what's happening-and remind you that you're not broken.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou're just in the fog.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAnd it \u003cem\u003edoes\u003c\/em\u003e get better.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Ash + Harbour Press","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":47594741661847,"sku":"9781069647009","price":1567.0,"currency_code":"INR","in_stock":false}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0666\/3471\/1191\/files\/9781069647009.webp?v=1774986996","url":"https:\/\/atlanticbooks.com\/products\/she-doesnt-hate-you-you-just-dont-matter-the-new-fathers-guide-to-surviving-the-first-six-months-after-childbirth-9781069647009","provider":"Atlantic Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}