{"product_id":"the-co-parenting-playbook-stay-sane-kind-and-clear-after-the-breakup-9798199501514","title":"The Co-Parenting Playbook: Stay Sane, Kind, and Clear After the Breakup","description":"\u003cp\u003e • Author(s): Sophia Lane\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher Imprint: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • BISAC: Divorce \u0026amp; Separation\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eThe custody order told you who gets the kids when. Nobody told you what to text at 9 p.m. when your ex changes the schedule again.\u003c\/b\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eThat gap is where co-parenting actually happens. The handoff that goes cold in the driveway. The expense that becomes a week of accusations. The child who comes home repeating something the other parent said. You have tried being the bigger person and you have tried going silent, and both leave you lying awake replaying conversations you cannot win. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eThis book treats co-parenting as what it really is: a job to run well, not a relationship to repair. The marriage ended; the parenting partnership did not. So instead of waiting for your ex to change, you get a system you can run on your own, starting with the next message. The research is clear and oddly freeing: it is not the divorce that harms children, it is the conflict they are exposed to, and the conflict is the part you can lower today. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eWhat makes this book different is the dial. Most co-parenting books pick a lane, assuming either a cooperative ex or a toxic one. This one is a single operating system with a cooperative setting and a parallel-parenting setting for every tool, so the same scripts work whether your co-parent meets you halfway or fights every step. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cb\u003eInside this book: \u003c\/b\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWord-for-word scripts for hostile texts, hard conversations, and the questions kids ask\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThe CALM Method: a four-part rule for any co-parenting decision or message\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow to build a parenting plan, a calm handoff, and a money rule that end the recurring fights\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eBoundaries and parallel parenting for when the other parent will not cooperate\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhat to say to your child, age by age, and a clear map of when to get outside help\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cbr\u003eThis is for the separated or divorced parent who is done with idealized advice and wants the exact words and the exact system for tonight. It spans cooperative and high-conflict situations, mothers and fathers, fresh splits and long-running ones. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ci\u003eYou cannot control your co-parent. You can run your half so well that the conflict has nowhere to reach your kids.\u003c\/i\u003e","brand":"Independently Published","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":47968619200663,"sku":"9798199501514","price":1188.0,"currency_code":"INR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0666\/3471\/1191\/files\/9798199501514.webp?v=1782918800","url":"https:\/\/atlanticbooks.com\/products\/the-co-parenting-playbook-stay-sane-kind-and-clear-after-the-breakup-9798199501514","provider":"Atlantic Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}