{"product_id":"the-dance-of-disagreement-approaching-conflicts-in-marriage-as-opportunities-for-deeper-connections-9798278416050","title":"The Dance of Disagreement: Approaching Conflicts in Marriage as Opportunities for Deeper Connections","description":"\u003cp\u003e • Author(s): Yvonne Duala-Ekoko | Jacob Duala-Ekoko\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher Imprint: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • BISAC: Conflict Resolution\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAre you exhausted from fighting the same battle every single week? Do you or your partner shut down, yell, or retreat during conflicts, leaving you feeling misunderstood and profoundly alone?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe pain you feel is real, but the problem isn't your love. A core frustration of marriage is that one's depth of love for their partner rarely matches their skill on how to engage in conflicts. You possess passion, commitment, and good intentions, yet when the pressure hits, you immediately regress into old, unhealthy habits. You know \u003ci\u003ewhat\u003c\/i\u003e you should say, but in the moment of stress, your body and your history hijack your mouth.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eMost marriages struggle because couples use strategies designed for simple fixes on the deep, recurring issues of personality and history. Drawing on decades of clinical experience and the proven science of the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy, \u003ci\u003eThe Dance of Disagreement\u003c\/i\u003e offers a radical promise: Conflict is not the end of your marriage; it is the engine for your deepest connection.\u003c\/p\u003eIn this essential book, you will learn to: \u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eStop Fighting the Same Fight (The 69% Rule): \u003c\/b\u003e Learn how to instantly distinguish between \u003ci\u003esolvable\u003c\/i\u003e problems and the 69% of \u003ci\u003eperpetual \u003c\/i\u003eproblems that result from core personality and value differences.\u003cbr\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e \u003cb\u003eMaster Conflict Engagement Styles: \u003c\/b\u003eUnderstand how our wiring influences our response to conflict and why you and your partner respond to conflicts the way you do.\u003cbr\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cb\u003eBreak the Pursuer-Withdrawer Cycle: \u003c\/b\u003e Understand the attachment-based reasons why you or your partner become anxious (\u003ci\u003epursuer\u003c\/i\u003e) or shut down (\u003ci\u003ewithdrawer\u003c\/i\u003e). Get the script to shift your conflicts from stalemate and frustration to breakthrough and intimacy.\u003cbr\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e \u003cb\u003eBreak-free from the Fight\/Flight Trap: \u003c\/b\u003e Learn physiological techniques for self-soothing during emotional flooding, ensuring disagreements with your partner brings you closer rather than pulling you apart.\u003cbr\u003e \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e \u003cb\u003eBuild an Unbreakable Foundation: \u003c\/b\u003e Learn the non-negotiable daily habits (Love Maps, Bids for Connection) that build a powerful emotional bank account, making it impossible for small conflicts to destroy your trust.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eYour marriage deserves a strategy that actually works. Don't settle for firefighting. Get the proactive skills needed to transform your disagreements from sources of pain into opportunities for secure, lifelong intimacy.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Independently Published","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":47594108256407,"sku":"9798278416050","price":1577.0,"currency_code":"INR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0666\/3471\/1191\/files\/9798278416050.webp?v=1774984724","url":"https:\/\/atlanticbooks.com\/products\/the-dance-of-disagreement-approaching-conflicts-in-marriage-as-opportunities-for-deeper-connections-9798278416050","provider":"Atlantic Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}