{"product_id":"the-friendship-solution-9781948158107","title":"The Friendship Solution","description":"\u003cp\u003e • Author(s): Wayne Mitchell | Tamara Mitchell\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher: Third Ghost Press\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher Imprint: Third Ghost Press\u003cbr\u003e • BISAC: Personal \u0026amp; Practical Guides\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eOne day, as we were reading an email to our advice column \u003cem\u003eDirect Answers\u003c\/em\u003e, Tamara looked up and said simply, \"She doesn't know what a friend is.\"\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThat line-she doesn't know what a friend is-has come back to us again and again as we read letters about a problem with a friend. Although we didn't realize it at the time, that is how \u003cem\u003eThe Friendship Solution \u003c\/em\u003ebegan.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eWe wrote this book for two reasons.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFirst, when many people use the word \"friend,\" they are actually describing a frenemy, a person they dislike, a rival or an antagonist, or a person who manipulates them. They are not talking about a true friend, someone they know and like, someone they can trust to have their back.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eUnderstanding this distinction is one of the keys to having a good life. But understanding this distinction is not enough. We must act on it.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThat is the second purpose of this book. We want to explain why we need to sort people out based on where they should fit in our life.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eSome dictionaries define a friend as someone we know well and like, exclusive of sexual or family ties. In this regard, dictionaries are behind the times. More and more, psychologists are seeing our friends, family, and romantic relationships not as fundamentally different but as tributaries of the same river.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThat is why when we speak of friends in this book, we include traditional friends as well as relatives and romantic partners.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eThe Friendship Solution\u003c\/em\u003e is about the place of friendship in all our relationships. It is about why we have friends, what a good friend is, learning to say no, and letting go of bad friends.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThrough letters and research, we will paint a portrait of friendship as it is and as it should be.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eFinally, this book is a long answer to a short letter, a letter we got on the day Tamara looked up from an email and said, \"She doesn't know what a friend is.\"\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Atlantic Books","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":46452452458647,"sku":"9781948158107","price":1431.0,"currency_code":"INR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0666\/3471\/1191\/files\/9781948158107.webp?v=1769140861","url":"https:\/\/atlanticbooks.com\/products\/the-friendship-solution-9781948158107","provider":"Atlantic Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}