{"product_id":"the-impostor-and-the-infinite-how-biology-language-and-theology-confused-desire-for-love-and-what-that-mistake-is-costing-us-9798259047020","title":"The Impostor and the Infinite: How Biology, Language, and Theology Confused Desire for Love - and What That Mistake Is Costing Us","description":"\u003cp\u003e • Author(s): Duane Bonton | Zarah Del-Rio Simpson | Keith Marshman\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher Imprint: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • BISAC: Love \u0026amp; Romance\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat if the most intense \"love\" you've ever felt...\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ewas never love at all?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eWhat if your brain could flood you with certainty, \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eattach you to someone deeply, \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eand convince you it's real-\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ewhile quietly deceiving you at the same 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