{"product_id":"when-someone-you-love-is-dying-what-to-say-what-to-do-and-how-to-be-present-9798197993304","title":"When Someone You Love Is Dying: What to Say, What to Do, and How to Be Present","description":"\u003cp\u003e • Author(s): Catherine R. Holloway\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher Imprint: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • BISAC: Death, Grief, Bereavement\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou are not doing this wrong. You are frightened and you do not know what to say and you are trying - and that trying is already the most important thing.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003eWhen Someone You Love Is Dying\u003c\/i\u003e is the honest, specific, practical guide that most families wish someone had given them at the beginning of this experience. Not platitudes. Not false comfort. The specific information about what dying actually looks like, what dying people actually need, what to say and what not to say, how to be present when presence feels impossible, and how to survive the grief that follows.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAcross 18 chapters and 4 parts, you will find what the dying process actually looks like physically - so you can be present rather than panicked. What the five conversations that matter most at the end of life are, and how to have them. Why silence is not failure and presence is not absence. How to advocate for adequate pain management. What the final hours actually look like. What grief actually looks like - not the stage model, but the real experience. And what you will carry from having stayed.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book will not make it easy. Nothing makes it easy. It will make it less frightening, less lonely, and less likely that you will carry the specific regret of words left unsaid and presence withheld out of fear of doing it wrong.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eYou are not doing it wrong. This book will help you do it a little better.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Independently Published","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":47891053215895,"sku":"9798197993304","price":1706.0,"currency_code":"INR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0666\/3471\/1191\/files\/9798197993304.webp?v=1781182208","url":"https:\/\/atlanticbooks.com\/products\/when-someone-you-love-is-dying-what-to-say-what-to-do-and-how-to-be-present-9798197993304","provider":"Atlantic Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}