{"product_id":"whisper-about-me-louder-notes-from-someone-you-thought-you-had-figured-out-9798198202542","title":"Whisper about me Louder: Notes From Someone You Thought You Had Figured Out","description":"\u003cp\u003e • Author(s): August Quinn\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher Imprint: Independently Published\u003cbr\u003e • BISAC: LGBTQ+ Studies - Gay Studies\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ePeople rarely say it to my face.\u003cbr\u003eBut assumptions have a way of getting loud - even when they're whispered.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAs someone who identifies as pansexual and androsexual, I've spent years navigating curiosity, confusion, admiration, judgment, and sometimes outright homophobia. Not always aggressively. Not always openly. But consistently enough to notice.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis isn't a coming-out story.\u003cbr\u003eIt's a clarity story.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eInside are reflections on: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhat people think they know about attraction\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThe difference between curiosity and disrespect\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow confidence changes how homophobia shows up\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWhy visibility matters - especially for younger LGBTQ people watching quietly\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAnd how to exist fully without explaining yourself on demand\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003eBecause being understood isn't required for being authentic.\u003cbr\u003eAnd whispers lose power when you stop pretending you don't hear them.","brand":"Independently Published","offers":[{"title":"Paperback","offer_id":47969124909207,"sku":"9798198202542","price":1353.0,"currency_code":"INR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0666\/3471\/1191\/files\/9798198202542.webp?v=1782920547","url":"https:\/\/atlanticbooks.com\/products\/whisper-about-me-louder-notes-from-someone-you-thought-you-had-figured-out-9798198202542","provider":"Atlantic Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}