{"product_id":"you-dont-find-love-you-become-it-an-orthodox-christian-guide-to-love-and-stability-9798295749544","title":"You Don't Find Love. You Become It.: An Orthodox Christian Guide to Love and Stability","description":"\u003cp\u003e • Author(s): Nikita Kevin Huttenlocher\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher: Nikita Huttenlocher\u003cbr\u003e • Publisher Imprint: Nikita Huttenlocher\u003cbr\u003e • BISAC: Love \u0026amp; Romance\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eMost people believe love is something you find.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThat somewhere out there is the right person who will finally bring clarity, stability, and peace.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eBut if that were true-\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ewhy does something that starts off feeling right\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eso often turn into overthinking, anxiety, and loss of control?\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eThis book is not about finding the right person.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIt's about understanding why you feel unstable in the first place.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eInside, you'll confront: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ewhy attachment creates anxiety, not security\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ewhy overthinking never gives you control\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ewhy modern relationships feel inconsistent and unclear\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eand why relying on feelings leads to confusion, not truth\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eThrough personal experience and grounded insight rooted in Orthodox Christian understanding, this book challenges the idea that love is something external.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIt shows that real love requires: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ediscipline\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eemotional control\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eself-awareness\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eand internal stability\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eBecause love doesn't fix instability.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIt requires it.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIf you've ever felt like something was off-but couldn't explain why-\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003ethis will make it clear.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Nikita Huttenlocher","offers":[{"title":"Hardcover","offer_id":47775267750039,"sku":"9798295749544","price":2140.0,"currency_code":"INR","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0666\/3471\/1191\/files\/9798295749544.webp?v=1777989325","url":"https:\/\/atlanticbooks.com\/products\/you-dont-find-love-you-become-it-an-orthodox-christian-guide-to-love-and-stability-9798295749544","provider":"Atlantic Books","version":"1.0","type":"link"}