Divorce, sometimes it's sudden. Sometimes it's a slow unraveling. Sometimes it's a choice we never thought we'd have to make. And sometimes it's a choice that was made for us. No one stands at the altar thinking about the day it will all come crashing down. No one rocks a newborn to sleep and dreams about dismantling the life they built. And no one imagines they'd be holding a book like this in their hands. But for you and countless others, it happens. This book is designed to help you walk through your next steps toward healing after your divorce. Each section is designed to walk you through a process. You won't just read; you'll engage, and after every section, you'll find: a short prayer to help you surrender what you're processing to God, and scriptures to anchor you in truth, not emotion. And reflection questions to help you sit with what God is revealing, so that you can apply it to your life. This is where the work happens, not in rushing through pages, but in allowing God to meet you right where you are.
In this book, we will go over topics like: God's Heart About Divorce, Loved Beyond Measure, The God Who Stays Close, God's Design For Covenant, Free Will And Choice, Redeeming The Story, Restored From The Inside Out, Healing After It Ends, God's Ongoing Work, A New Creation, Identity In Christ, Stepping Into New Life, Jesus Understands Being Misunderstood, Responding Like Christ, God As Your Defender, Search My Heart, Healing From Within, Walking In Wholeness, The Call To Forgive, Forgiveness For Freedom, Search My Heart, Healing From Within, Walking In Wholeness, The Call To Forgive, Forgiveness For Freedom, Boundaries Are Biblical, God's Plans Remain, Purpose In Every Season, God's Glory Through Your Story, God Restores Years Lost, Joy Will Return, Peace That Surpasses Understanding, Strength To Keep Going, Unshakeable Hope, A New Chapter Begins, and The Rise After The Rubble.
After working through this book, you will have a new perspective on your divorce because what happened to you may have shaped you, but it doesn't have to define you. You are still more than a conqueror in Christ, and DIVORCE is not the end of your story. In fact, NOT DEFEATED is.
Crotty, Ruby: - Ruby Crotty is a Christian leader, mentor, speaker, and founder of The Waves Collective, a ministry focused on identity, healing, and purpose after divorce. After 18 years in the corporate world, she stepped into a new calling in ministry and leadership, helping others rebuild their lives through biblical truth and discipleship. She is also known for her bold truth, deep faith, and unwavering belief that God still restores what was once broken. Ruby enjoys life in Florida with her two amazing children. And, when she's not mentoring or writing, she's paddleboarding on the water or attending her church home, where her faith continues to grow in community.
