El enojo está BIEN La violencia, written by Julie Federico and illustrated by Glori Alexander, is a thoughtful, much-needed addition to pre-school teachers' and social workers' libraries. With vibrant, TV-cartoon-like illustrations and simple, direct text appropriate for even the youngest children, this picture book explores the complexity and vitality of anger, and when it is appropriately expressed and when it is not.
True emotional intelligence is something recognized and respected but rarely taught and discussed, even among adults. The goal of this worthy project is to engage children in a safe, non-threatening exploration of complicated, often-frightening feelings. Federico lets kids know that anger is normal, though managing its expression can be complicated.
Clear language and child-friendly art invite a direct, straightforward examination of when anger is appropriate and how to safely express it through art, physical activity, tears. What's not OK is hitting, biting, throwing and hurting. The book gently and clearly reminds its vulnerable audience that adults can find the journey just as tricky as children do. If an adult hurts a child or someone they love, Federico instructs her young readers that telling a trusted adult is a safe and right action for them to take.
Needless to say, this is complex emotional territory, and Federico's tone is perfect: even, loving, simple, clear. Educators and caregivers may well find this a helpful tool in eliciting important conversations, and the book includes contact information for The National Domestic Violence Hotline and other respected sources of support.
Julie Federico
Domestic Violence Expert
www.juliefederico.com
Reviews:
Amy Manning
5.0 out of 5 stars
Great for small children and very relateable!
"This is a perfect book for small children who have witnessed domestic violence or struggle with angry/aggressive behaviors. I am a children's therapist and I always find that children would rather read about a story about an animal rather than a human any day! The illustrations are vibrant. Overall, a great book!"
Carol Harris
"This is a great read to use with younger children, Easy to read, in simplistic language with illustrations that will appeal to younger children on a difficult, but emotive subject."
Federico, Julie K.: - Julie Federico is a prevention expert who writes children's books on; child abuse, domestic violence, school violence prevention, friendship, and race relations. All of her books are a must-read for every child. Julie takes complex social problems and breaks them down into language that even the youngest of readers can understand. Her books are for readers 0-9 years old. Each book is the tip of the iceberg when discussing the issue. Julie opens the door and explains difficult topics in a friendly, non-threatening way. She uses language to protect children and keep them from harm and danger. Parents will appreciate her straightforward message, kids will appreciate her laid-back approach to the most difficult of topics. All of her books are illustrated in a welcoming fish theme. Two of her seven books have been translated into Spanish. I write children's books that help parents keep their kids safe. I have written prevention books on child abuse prevention, domestic violence prevention, school violence prevention, race relations, and elementary friendships. These books are a lifeline to parents. I take difficult adult topics and break them down in a language that preschoolers can comprehend. All of my materials are non threatening and easy for the youngest reader to understand. Knowledge is power, please protect your children.She is available for speaking engagements and loves to share the powerful message of prevention. www.juliefederico.com
